Location: Seattle, Washington
Founder & Editor of Femme Galaxy
Joyful Pleasure - Professional Site
Purveyor of Pleasure - Personal Blog
Wanton Lotus Reviews - Sex Toy Reviews
Pleasurists - Review Round-up
Scarlet Creatrix Designs - Website Design Portfolio
Also known on the web as "Scarlet Lotus" Tai Quyn Kulystin is a writer, educator, web designer, artist, activist, harlot, and gentlefemme about town. Ze believes in freedom of choice, self-identification, and each of us discovering our own bliss. Ze prefers other-gendered pronouns and currently identifies as genderqueer fat femme fagette and queer polyamorous switch. Ze has been intentionally exploring, deconstructing, and reconstructing hir own queer kinky sexuality, queer gender, and spirituality for over a decade. With degrees in Gender Studies and Psychology, a certification in Transpersonal Hypnotherapy, and a lifetime of gender and sexuality exploration Scarlet/Tai loves exploring concepts of self, identity, and community both solo and within groups.
Ze writes about pleasure, kink, and identity at Purveyor of Pleasure and review sex toys and adult products at Wanton Lotus Reviews. Ze is also the creator and editor of the community-focused blog Femme Galaxy and the weekly adult product and sex toy review round-up Pleasurists.
My basic definition of a femme is someone who consciously chooses to embrace fem(me)ininity as a “deviant” identity. I believe femme is a conscious genderfuck in the rouse of traditional femininity. The major difference between a feminine woman and a femme is conscious gender performance, and anyone who consciously takes on the role of femininity as a deviant identity can be femme.
I don’t believe that femme is reserved for any type of person, there are femmes of all sexes, orientations, sizes, colors, etc. The only thing I believe must be present in order to embrace the identity of femme is just that: embracing the identity and consciously performing femmeininity.
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About Beauty Rituals
Beauty Rituals is my own personal fascination and obsession with beauty products from a sometimes-trans genderqueer femme perspective. I only use chemical-free face and body products and have a love of all things glittery, especially eye makeup. This is my exploration of the ritual of beauty.